Life at the moment is so weird, any-help? x?
Ok so i’m a girl and my twin is a guy, both 14 (obviously lol)
so ill start from the beginning (sorry this could be long)
2 years ago we came home from school (me and 3 brothers)
And our parents had packed their clothes and left us….never herd from them since but we get £4000 in the post every month…..Anyway
Ever since that day me and my twin have shared a bed (guest room has a king size)
and we both started puberty, and theres been times when ive either ‘leaked’ on the bed, or hes had a wet dream or shizz but we just over look it and change the sheets, is this normal or ok?
I guess we just want each other to be there, so we know we arent gonna leave….
thats my first question….
The other is ive onlt had my period 3 times, ive told my twin (really helped me) but i dont know how to tell the older brothers (21 & 19) i wana tell the oldest, as he looks after us and kinda acts as our ‘dad’ but i dunno how to, i kinda feel im hiding it from him (i do the bins normally) has anyone else ever had to tell thier brothers and how did that go???
My bf’s mum kinda acts as my mum and i told her when i started so i do have someone like that kinda…
i kinda feel im going through puberty with my twin, has anyone else ever felt that?
i can talk about anything with him and same for him to me…is that weird + is it weird we share the same bed? we have our own rooms +beds but we sleep together (nothing sexual EVER we just like to be together)
Any suggestions on how to talk to my oldest brother about periods?
Thank you soo much and i know this dosn’t really make sense, but my life dosn’t at the moment lol
+ i dont really have any rules, so im kinda ‘wild’
E.g. Sex, Alchol, Partys dont go to school (i work with my brothers, ski instructor), how do i get back to earth kinda, my life is like a party and i want some stability in it, how do i do this when i have nothingg stable in my life and have no one to make me…..
Im sorry about the non- sense making
i posted this in a few sections and you are the only one who has been cool about it and tried to help…so thanks (: x
We don’t know why they left, we came home from school one day (we all used to walk home together) and there was a note that plainly said, ‘we love you all && don’t worry we went of our accord’
we still have the note, and we had a cheque with the money and we just keep getting cheques in the post….